Elaine N. Whalen


Elaine N. Whalen, 79, passed away on Sunday, February 18, 2018. Born in Ballston Spa, NY on January 9, 1939, she was the daughter of Edward and Ruth Schnars.

Elaine was a teaching assistant at Ballston Spa Central Schools for several years. She then worked at Skidmore University Without Walls and The Prevention Council in Saratoga Springs.

Nana, Nay and Nayna, as she was known by her grandchildren, had a special relationship with each of them.

She was predeceased by her son Lee Whalen and her sister Ellen Hyde. Elaine is survived by her husband Thomas, and their children, Lorrie Patenaude (Michael) of Gansevoort, Mark Whalen of Troy, Timothy Whalen (Mary) of Porter Corners, and Beth Smisloff (Mark) of Saratoga Springs; beloved grandchildren Kelsey Latham, Carter Older, Nathan Patenaude, Jessica Quigley, Tera Patenaude, Katie Whalen, Thomas Whalen, Piper Whalen, Rachel Smisloff, Grace Smisloff, William Smisloff and Leah Smisloff; great granddaughters Harper Patenaude and Scarlett Quigley; twin sister Liz Frank; and several nieces and nephews.

A private family service will be held.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Cornelia de Lange Syndrome Foundation, 302 West Main St #100, Avon, CT 06001 or Estherville Animal Shelter, 100 Russell Rd, Greenfield Center, NY 12833.

Guest Book

Cheryl Hyde Davia

I am so sad that Elaine is gone. She always had a smile for everyone, along with kindness, generosity and laughter. For all of Elaine's children, Lorie, Mark, Tim, and Beth, I send my sincere, heart felt condolences. The Grandchildren will miss her so much. And I hope the Great grandchildren will grow up to remember their special Grandmother. And Tom, you know that she will always be with you in spirit, love and cherished memories. I'm glad that you have such wonderful children to help you, and each other through this difficult time.

My thoughts, love and prayers are with all of you.
With sympathy,
Cheryl Hyde, (niece), & Christian Davia
Brandy Station, Virginia

The Michelin Family

Our family will greatly miss seeing Elaine at our restaurant. My husband got to know her when he was in school many years ago and many years later, I became friends with Mary & Tim, and then, Beth. In the comings and goings at Waldorf, through Whalen family gatherings, and at the restaurant, we were always pleased to see Elaine and enjoyed lovely conversations with her. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone she leaves behind.

Peterson

I was very saddened to hear about the passing of Elaine. She was always kind to me when I used to visit back in the old days. She always made me a tuna sandwich, and it was always delicious. Actually, they were the best tuna sandwiches I ever had.

I know she will be sorely missed, but I also know she will be watching over all of you from above...especially her favorite, Tim.

Kidding :)

Peterson

Chris Hailand

Tim and Beth,
So sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Much love.

Jackie Pardon

I think of Elaine often. We worked together at Skidmore's UWW, and I always loved the talks we had together.
We talked about family, and about love, and life. She taught me a lot.

It was an added treat to see her and Tom, later, at Waldorf school events. A beam of light.

She is -- was -- a special gal.
All my best to the whole family.

Anne McMahon

Joe and I are so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful woman and we know that you loved her so dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa Brownson

I'm so sorry for your loss. Elaine's generosity and vivacity touched everyone she met.
Love to you all,
Lisa

Ardella Baxter Hutchins

I am so sorry for your loss. Elaine was a wonderful caring lady. She had reached out to me not long ago when she found me on FB. It was good communicating with her. My Dad Peter worked with Tom many years ago. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories sustain you during this sad time. Ardella Baxter-Hutchins

Lucy

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers with you always my dear friend.

Love and warm hugs,

Lucy

Fred & Dianne Peter and Family

Tom & Family are hearts go out to you! We came to know the Whalen Gang through your beloved sister Kay! We got to know all of you over the last 50 years or so and have shared many wonderful moments through the good times & bad. Just know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers through these difficult times!

Ron Cellupica

Tom, our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the passing of Elaine, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Chris Farrell & Craig Knef

A wonderful, nutty, loving and special woman I will never forget, our thoughts and prayers are with you all ❤️

Bonnie Cornelius

Beth and family, so very sorry for your devastating loss. You have all been in my prayers.

Deirdre and Michael Ladd

We are so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. She was a great lady that has left a wonderful legacy of warm kindness and a quick wit in the hearts of her family and friends.

Gregory J ODonnell

Sorry to hear of your loss. I remember her as being a great Mom. Condolences.

Wendy Rydzynski-Rogers

The Whalen Family,

Your mom was a wonderful gracious woman.
Every time I saw her she was so warm and friendly.
I am sadden by the loss of such a lovely lady.

May all your family memories bring you peace and comfort.

Wendy Rydzynski-Rogers

Theresa DeMayo

My condolence for the Whalen family God has accepted another angel in heaven

Margie Nowak

Beth, I am so sad for you and your family. I can honestly say, I know exactly how you are feeling. Celebrate her life and the fabulous person that she was. Love to all of you.

Jeff August

My Deepest sympathies and prayers of comfort and peace go out to the entire family. Elaine was such a light in this world...I enjoyed many chats at the lake with her. Her genuineness made it all so easy. My heart aches for Tom and his loving family.

Midge McHale

Tom and Family.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Such great memories on Margaret Drive, and our Sunday get togethers. May you rest in peace in heaven Elaine and give " Big Jim a hug from me"

Jenny Rollo

Dear Beth..... I am so sorry for your loss. Love for you stretches around the world. Thinking of your family. Xxxx

Susan and David Fowler

Oh Beth... so very sorry for this huge loss to you and your family. How wonderful that she could be apart of your lives for all these years! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Love,
Susan and David Fowler

Meg Crozier

To my second family,
Nay was loved by so many. I am so sorry for your loss and will always have the fondest of memories of Nay, always (looking fashionable) telling me how beautiful and handsome her grandchildren are, how much she loves them and how blessed we are to have a lasting friendship.

You know my heart and prayers are with you all.

Xoxo
Cousin Meg

David Frank

Condolences from Texas. We are all heartbroken to hear the news. She was a second mom/nayna to us - figuratively and genetically :)
((hugs)),
David, Kelly, Dave and Olivia

Jeanne Whalen

So very sorry for your loss. Love and prayers !

Nancy Whalen Moll

Elaine,
I can’t begin to imagine life without you. I hope you know how much I cherished our friendship. Thank you for being my friend. You will always be in my heart.
All my love,
Nancy

Deborah Guilfoyle

Heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your beautiful mother, grandmother, friend. You all are such a special family. May you find peace in each other.

Bonnie & Joe Treiber

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this sad occasion.

Brian Reilly

To The Whalen Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you on the passing of your beloved Mother and Grandmother.

Elaine's warm hospitality and beautiful smile created many happy memories of visits to Ballston Spa with Linda.

May Elaine Rest in Peace,

Brian Reilly
Denver, Colorado

Marie Ahl

Rest in peace my dear friend. You will be sadly missed by so many. Prayers for her family to get through this

George Morris

For as long as I can remember, Elaine has been in the circle of people I know. Growing up on Lowell Street, she lived with both her Grandmother and Uncle. A few years ago, with her Cousin Jack Hyatt, Elaine and Tom hosted us for dinner...a delicious meal and a sense that we had all be friends forever.

My prayers are with you, Elaine's family. May the memories of her good life be a deep comfort at this time.

Marlene Denison

Tom & family, my condolences to each and everyone of you. Elaine was a classmate, life time friend and a old neighbor. Watched our family's grow to great adults on Margaret Drive. We will miss her as you will , she was a special friend.
Bless you all! Mrs.D.